Was “bon soir-ed” last night by a couple men.  I must admit, I was looking good and felt “bon-soir-worthy.”  Much more charming than a cat call, or the crude American way of overtly looking a woman up and down.  They just smile at you, and say, “good evening.”  And you smile back, and return the “good evening.”  No harm, no foul, and everybody feels good.